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Everyone loves James Blake. Tennis fans cheer for him.
Men want to
play poker and drink beer with him. Women desire to date
him. How
does one man capture the interest of so many people?
Blake was dealt
identity-defining adversity most of his life. What doesn't
kill you makes
you stronger, or in Blake's case, grounded and more likeable.
What you
see is what you get. Blake is believable.

Breaking Back: How I Lost Everything
and Won Back My Life released and
debuted at No.22 on The New York
Times bestseller list, July 3, 2007.
Blake's delicate balance of hardship began in his youth. Growing up, he was teased for having interracial parents. When he was 13 and barely five-feet tall, he was diagnosed with severe scoliosis and wore a full length back brace for 18 hours a day, only taking it off to play tennis. As the No.1 college tennis player in the country, Blake dropped out of Harvard University during his sophomore year to turn pro. Five years later in 2004, he broke his neck during practice when he fell and slid into a net-post. During recovery, his father was diagnosed with stomach cancer and died shortly thereafter. Following his father's death, Blake developed stress-induced shingles that temporarily paralyzed half of his face and blurred his sight. Many times Blake wondered if he'd ever have a "normal" life, let alone play tennis again.
Today, in memory of his father and with the support of family, friends and his coach, Blake hurdles the obstacles and plays tennis better than ever. To help process his experiences, he recently wrote a top selling book, Breaking Back, that chronicles his life.
“Breaking Back was important for me to write because it was an opportunity to assess many of the ups and downs in my life and tennis career. I wanted people to be able to relate tome as a human being. It's so much easier to do when they see the human side of me instead of just the one that they see on TV competing on the tennis court.”
Blake writes that one of the most telling marks of
a player's character
on court is whether or not they can "break back." His
father always told
him, "You can't control your talent, but you can control
your effort."
Blake exerts effort with grunt-force. Knowing his source
of inspiration
gives a deeper relevance to his game - the game of tennis
and the
game of life.
YOU'VE SAID THAT IN THE PAST YOU WOULD DREAD
TRYING TO LIVE UP TO YOUR FULL POTENTIAL. IS
THAT STILL AN ISSUE FOR YOU?
DO YOU HAVE AN IDEA OF WHAT YOUR TRUE POTENTIAL
IS?
WHEN I'VE HEARD YOU SAY YOU DON'T SET ANY GOALS,
IT'S DIFFICULT FOR ME TO IMAGINE. HOW CAN YOU
CONTINUE TO IMPROVE AND MEASURE GROWTH WITHOUT
SPECIFIC GOALS IN MIND? |
“Michael Jordan was the most exciting person I've met. When I was a kid, he was my athlete role model...he always tried to prove something in every game. I wanted to be like him.” |
HOW ARE YOU CONTINUING
YOUR PURSUIT OF "GETTING
BETTER" AS A PLAYER - AND AS A PERSON?
As a player, I continue to pursue it with hard work
and also trying to work smart. That means figuring
out the most important aspects to be worked on and
focusing the practice time on those. As a person, I
just try to be more responsible and aware of all my
actions and how they can affect others. I try to make
sure that I'm affecting people in a positive way.
SINCE YOU DON'T SET
SPECIFIC GOALS, DO YOU HAVE A PLAN "A" AND "B?"
I plan to play until
I no longer enjoy it or my body won't let me. I just
want to be healthy and be surrounded by my friends
as much as possible. Plan "B" isn't
exactly clear right now.
SOMEHOW I THOUGHT YOU MIGHT SAY THAT. SO, YOUR LONGTIME
COACH, AND ONLY COACH, BRIAN BARKER, HAS BEEN YOUR
FRIEND, MENTOR AND INSTRUCTOR SINCE YOU WERE 11. IF
YOU HAD ACCESS TO A COACH DURING MATCHES, HOW WOULD
YOU BENEFIT FROM BRIAN'S INPUT?
I think Brian has one
the greatest tennis minds on tour. If he were able
to coachmen during tournaments then he would transfer
those messages effectively.
DO YOU FAVOR COACHING DURING MATCH PLAY?
Yes. I also feel like many other players are bending
the rules and being coached when it isn't allowed
right now. If it were allowed, it would level the
playing field.
YOU HAVE TO BE "MATCH-TOUGH" TO LOOK BEYOND
DISTRACTIONS AND ELEMENTS OUT OF YOUR CONTROL, LIKE
THE "BENDING OF THE RULES." WOULD YOU SAY
YOU'RE MORE MATCH-TOUGH TODAY THAN IN YOUR RECENT PAST?
Yeah, I'm definitely more match-tough today and that
just comes from life experience. I find I'm much better
at relaxing on the court during important moments.
IS IT DIFFICULT FOR YOU TO MAINTAIN A STEADY LEVEL
OF CONFIDENCE AS A TOURING PRO?
My confidence, like everyone's, still goes up and down.
But, it's much easier to keep it from dipping too low
or getting too high now that I've seen so many more
years of tennis and life's ups and downs.
WHAT DO YOU MEAN WHEN
YOU'VE CALL YOURSELF AN "ODDS-DEFIER?"
I've defied the odds just by being a professional athlete.
I was diagnosed with scoliosis when I was 13 and
had to wear a back brace every day through high school.
The fact that I'm a pro athlete is laughable now.
Those are long-shot odds.
NOT ONLY ARE YOU A PRO ATHLETE, BUT YOU'RE AN
AMERICAN CROWD FAVORITE. THE STADIUM GETS VERY
LOUD AND ROWDY WHEN YOU'RE ON COURT. YOU MUST
FEEL THE ENERGY?
ARE THERE ANY EVENTS WHERE THEIR SUPPORT HAS
MADE A GREATER IMPACT ON YOUR PERFORMANCE? |
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YOU WERE INCREDIBLY ENTERTAINING
AND APPEARED TO HAVE FOUND A NEW LEVEL OF CONFIDENCE
AT BOTH OF THOSE PAST EVENTS. AT THE DAVIS CUP, YOU
WENT FOR A LOT OF WINNERS - AND MADE A LOT OF THEM.
THE CROWD LOVED THAT LEVEL OF EFFORT. AND THEN THE U.S.
OPEN: THE GRUNTS, THE POWER, THE PRECISION, THE BACKHAND!
I THOUGHT YOU WERE UNSTOPPABLE. YOU HAD A MONUMENTAL
WIN IN THE SECOND ROUND AGAINST THE FRENCH "MAGICIAN" (FABRICE
SANTORO) WITH YOUR FIRST FIVE SET MATCH VICTORY - EVER.
THEN, YOU FACED THE UNFORTUNATE LOSS IN THE FOURTH ROUND
AGAINST TOMMY HAAS IN A TOUGH FIVE SETTER. HOW DO YOU
HANDLE A DEFEAT LIKE THAT?
Initially, I have a tough time dealing with it. I'm
a competitor and want to win every time I step on the
court. But after a bit of time goes by, I always try to
put the loss into perspective, move on, and try to improve
from there.
FROM THE PERSPECTIVE OF A RECREATIONAL TENNIS PLAYER,
COMPETING AT YOUR INTENSITY LOOKS IMPOSSIBLE TO ATTAIN
OR MAINTAIN. IS THAT A FAIR ASSESSMENT?
At this level, the competition
is completely exhausting. That's why I feel the schedule
needs to be shortened. We have a very short off season
and we travel all over the world for 11 months out of
the year. That's a lot and it takes a toll on our bodies
and psyche. I think that's the main reason for players
retiring at such young ages in our sport.
IS THERE ONE EVENT THAT STANDS OUT AS YOUR GREATEST '07
TENNIS MOMENT?
Winning my singles match against Spain in the quarterfinals
of Davis Cup.
ANY PARTICULAR REASON?
I hadn't won too many matches before that and it felt
good to contribute to the win for the team.
ON THE FLIP SIDE, WHAT WAS YOUR MOST DIFFICULT TENNIS
EXPERIENCE IN THE PAST YEAR?
Probably losing in the first round of the French Open.
AMERICAN TENNIS FANS ARE ALL PULLING FOR YOU TO WIN YOUR
FIRST GRAND SLAM EVENT.
Yeah, that would be great. It's tough though with that
Swiss guy in the mix.
HE CAN'T BE NO.1 FOREVER. YOU'VE BEEN RANKED IN THE TOP
15 FOR A COUPLE OF YEARS NOW, WHICH IS A GREAT FEAT. IS
THAT ACCOMPLISHMENT SATISFYING, OR DO YOU STRIVE TO BE
NO.1?
My ranking is something that isn't so important to
me. If I make it to No.1 it would be something that I
could always be proud of, but I can also be proud that
I have done my best to this point and that has gotten
me as high as No.4 in the world.
THAT'S A HEALTHY OUTLOOK, ESPECIALLY CONSIDERING THE
COMPETITION KEEPS GETTING STRONGER, FASTER AND YOUNGER.
I WOULD THINK IT EITHER MAKES THE GAME MORE EXCITING TO
YOU OR DISHEARTENING.
To me, the fact that the competition is getting better
is exciting. I've seen it in every sport. The training
methods get better and the athletes become more and more
specialized. I think it's great to see the improvement
and I try to keep up with it.
DO YOU HAVE PREDICTIONS FOR 2008?
I have stopped making any sort of predictions about
life or tennis because I realize just how much is out
of my control. So I just try to adjust to every situation
as it comes to me.
SOME PEOPLE SAY THEY TREAT
LIFE AS A "MARATHON," WHICH
IMPLIES PATIENCE. YOU'VE SAID YOU TREAT YOUR LIFE MORE
LIKE A "SPRINT." WHAT DOES THAT IMPLY?
I want to get the most out of life and not plan to
have all the time in the world. We all have a finite amount
of time, so I try to use it as best as I can.
DO YOU HAVE A FAVORITE INSPIRATIONAL PROVERB THAT IS
FITTING FOR SITUATIONS ON AND OFF THE COURT?
I wrote a proverb in my high
school yearbook that I've always thought of as helpful
throughout the years. I don't remember who first wrote
it, but it goes: "Regrets
over yesterday and fear of tomorrow are the twin thieves
that rob us of the moment."
YOUR FATHER WAS GOOD WITH WORDS. IN YOUR BOOK
YOU WROTE THAT HE INSTILLED A STRONG WORK ETHIC
AND WOULD SAY “YOU CAN'T CONTROL YOUR TALENT,
BUT YOU CAN CONTROL YOUR EFFORT.” WHEN DO YOU
FEEL HIS PRESENCE MOST AND WHAT CAN YOU HEAR
HIM SAYING? |
James in front with his mother (Betty), father (Tom), and brother (Thomas Jr.). |
YOU'VE DESCRIBED YOUR
DAD AS "FIERCELY INDEPENDENT,
STRONG-WILLED, A MISTER SERIOUS DRILL SERGEANT." HAVE
YOU INHERITED SOMEOF THOSE TRAITS?
I'm like my father when I'm doing anything competitive that I really care about.
That is where my hard work, determination and strong will are most present.
YOUR MOM, ON THE OTHER
HAND, YOU'VE CALLED A "SOFTIE." HOW
ARE YOU MOST LIKE HER?
When it comes to animals. I'm such an animal lover
that I can't help but stop and pet any sort of domesticated
animal I see.
OF THE TWO, WHICH DO YOU MOST IDENTIFY WITH?
I think I'm a bit more like my father. I have a lot
of his work ethic and many of his mannerisms. The
older I get, the more I think I look like him too.
“I still don't take any painkillers and pretty much stay away from any sort of medication as much as I possibly can. I just try to take vitamin C and eat healthily.”
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YOUR PARENTS GAVE YOU A GOLD
BRACELET FOR YOUR BIRTHDAY A FEW YEARS AGO. I
SEE YOU WEARING IT AT YOUR MATCHES. WHAT DOES
IT MEAN TO YOU OR SYMBOLIZE?
ARE THERE ANY CIRCUMSTANCES WHERE YOU WOULD
TAKE IT OFF?
YOU'VE SAID THAT BOTH OF YOUR PARENTS ENCOURAGED
YOU AND YOUR BROTHER THOMAS TO ALWAYS BE READING
A BOOK. HAVE YOU KEPT UP WITH THAT TRADITION
AND ARE YOU READING A BOOK NOW? |

THEORHETICALLY, MEN THAT HAVE GOOD RELATIONSHIPS WITH
THEIR MOTHERS HAVE GOOD RELATIONSHIPS WITH THEIR GIRLFRIENDS.
HOW'S YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR MOTHER?
My mother and I are very close – we can talk and joke
about anything with each other.
DOES SHE GIVE YOU ADVICE?
I've learned so much from
her for so many, many years. I'm still learning from
her and I find it amazing the times she actually listens
tome because I know how bright she is. There's still
so much I can still learn from her.
DOES SHE TELL YOU ANYTHING IN
PARTICULAR?
IN ANY WAY
WOULD YOU, OR ANYONE ELSE, CONSIDER YOURSELF
A "MOMMA'S BOY?"
I SEE HER IN THE STANDS CHEERING YOU ON AT
THE TELEVISED TOURNAMENTS. HOWIMPORTANT IS
IT TO HAVE HER AT YOUR MATCHES?
DOES SHE GET ANXIOUS WATCHING YOU PLAY?
IS SHE SITTING CLOSE ENOUGH FOR YOU TO HEAR
HER CHEERS?
NOW, FOR THE QUESTION EVERY SINGLE WOMAN WANTS
TO KNOW: WHEN IT COMES TO GIRLFRIENDS, WHAT
TYPE OF WOMAN ARE YOU TYPICALLY ATTRACTED TO?
WHAT KIND OF BOYFRIEND ARE YOU: EASY GOING,
AFFECTIONATE, HARD TO PLEASE, MOODY?
ARE YOU HIGH-MAINTENANCE IN ANY ASPECT?
I'VE HEARD YOUR BUDDIES TEASE YOU ABOUT FALLING
HARD IN A RELATIONSHIP. IS THAT TRUE OR ARE
YOU MORE THE CAUTIOUS AND CONSERVATIVE TYPE?
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